I have a hard time relinquishing control, I also have pretty severe anxiety and many times I don’t even trust my husband to watch over my fur babies. I have two multi poos that can be very picky eaters and also very distracted when it’s time to eat, it’s crucial that they are watched the entire time. One needs to use a diaper because he can’t always control control his need to urinate. They are both still in the middle of being trained so you have to be consistent and repetitive with the orders and rewards. I had rescued my kitten at the age where it was imperative to still bottlefeed. He was very small, very malnourished couldn’t see yet, and so the hours and attention to detail work that consisted were crucial. I love my fur babies, yet I know that the responsibility is plenty and can be overwhelming and very tiring so the idea of anybody else watching them made me very hesitant. Luckily, Vanessa never once made me feel uncomfortable with everything, my pets demanded, she was very accommodating, versatile, accepting, understanding and compassionate. Vanessa followed all my request exactly, she is also a fur baby mama so she empathizes. Vanessa she has gotten to see my pets grow up, she has cried along with me when I tried rescuing my cats siblings whom unfortunately did not make it due to the bad environment that they were previously in. My fur babies, and I will forever be grateful for her humanity and her big heart she is such a sweet human being that the world needs more of. I was also very understanding of her feelings. Of course, communication was key, and I always wanted to make sure she felt safe comfortable, and only ever did what was in her capabilities and whatever she gave concession of. Vanessa is part of the family and we will always love her.