I've owned dogs my entire life. I've owned a border collie, a dachshund, a mixed breed, and a Doberman. My most recent dog, Mollie, a Pomeranian, died from old age last year. I miss her very much. My back yard is not a traditional yard. It's a deck, and courtyard surrounded by a 6 foot tall red wood fence. They won't escape! Whatever your dog wishes is my desire! If your dog is a kisser and a hugger, than so am I. If they want to lay on the couch, sit on my lap, or nap on my bed, it's all good! Mollie has left my couch looking pretty well used. I don't have any does or don'ts...what your dog wants, your dog will get!