I like to be in-tune with what dogs need. That could be extra playtime, smell time outside, pets and sits on the carpet next to them. I love to cuddle dogs if they're up for it, but I'm also happy to give them the space they need if they are feeling overwhelmed. Puppy kisses and jumps are totally normal in my book, too. When I got my dog, Mildred, she was an aggressive licker and biter. I worked with her to tone down her licking and she doesn't bite anymore. When meeting a new dog, I'll get on their level and wait for them to come to me. No forced interaction and light, cheerful voices is where I'm at on a daily basis. I only use "no" for serious situations and will say "uh-uh" or "excuse me" if I want to get the dogs' attention.