I find whatever makes the dog luagh and pant and have a good time and give it to them. I also allow them to learn new tricks. Plus, I'll run with them and let them use thier energy. I've rescued animals as well as kept them from puppy hood. I've even been involved with birthing animals. I've had experience with perfectly healthy animals and animals with illnesses like breast cancer, arthritis, and hip displacia. I can love them no matter how friendly or cranky they are. I know how to bathe, brush, teeth clean, ear clean, and administer medicine. The funny thing is, every dog is a lap dog. Every dog also loves to socialize and play. There's a lot to learn from a dog.