We have 3 shelties. A 12 year old female, an 11 year old male and a 10 year old male. Their whole lives have been just the three of them (and 2 cats). Occasionally I would watch my sister-in-law's dog and sometimes she'd stay here with ours. Her dog is male. Katie, the only female, is the alpha dog. However, she is not aggressive... unless someone doesn't get the hint. If she doesn't want to be bothered, she will give a little growl. If that doesn't work, she'll show her teeth. And her final warning is to nip at them. It rarely ever gets to that. Katie's Princess status just flows out of her and dogs seem to know she owns the place. Our youngest dog does not like confrontation. When he doesn't want to be bothered, he lays on our bed. Our middle dog has to be the center of all the attention.
Be aware of what she is doing, but don't scold her for letting other dogs know it's her house and she's the boss. The other dogs will get it, even if she has to get a bit angry with them. She's standing her ground. She's letting them know this is her house and they are a guest. And that's okay. But like I said, be aware of what she is doing. Some dogs just will not share their space or their owner for anything.
I highly recommend introductions on leashes in case you have to separate them quickly. Let them sniff, growl, do their dog thing. Don't interfere unless you absolutely have to. At first, give her all sorts of lovins. Then, with her on your lap, still getting lovins, have the other dog come over and pet it, but keep talking to her. Then give them both treats, her first. It may take time, but I think if you reassure her that you aren't trading her in for a newer model, she will do just fine.
Stand back and don't intervene. She's going to always be territorial. You should allow this Bc it is what they do to survive. However, you also need to relax and let it go as it may. Tell everyone else what your plan is so she can become social with other pets. You cant be nervous. Just sit, relax and observe.