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how to help if a dog is afraid but is the only that you care for that acts this way?

I am caring for 2 dogs in the same house during the week for feeding and potty time. One is just so scared, and I have never had a animal be afraid. He's big, has no reason to, but gets afraid to come in and to be put on a leash for walking......want take a treat, I have tried it all, and I feel so sorry for him, anyone have any suggestions?

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The dog is going to have to get used to you, which means you have to spend time at the client's home. You won't be able to establish any level of trust with the dog if you go in, do the feeding and walking and leave. I'm afraid you would need to be around the dog for hours. I had two chihuahua mixes staying with me. One was completely docile; the other had attitude and was protective of her sibling. Each wore a harness. There was no way I could put the harness on the non-docile one, without her trying to bite me. I could attach a leash to her collar, but that wasn't a safe way to walk her because of her head/neck and she could easily get away. It took nearly two days for that dog to trust and like me. In fact, the owner was quite surprised by the relationship we had established after a week. The dog was afraid and only one-on-one time with the dog can overcome that kind of fear. Being with the dog for a half hour two to three times a day probably won't resolve his issues.

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Has the Pet Parent given you any information about the dog that is so frightened? How does he get along with the other dog? Observe their interaction. I would sit down on the floor beside the frightened dog, caress him and speak very softly. Put on some soft music like Sound Scapes or what massage therapists use for relaxation. It will take time to gain his trust and develop a bond. Find the "spots" he likes to be rubbed or scratched i.e. the ears, base of tail, belly rubs, etc. Each dog has their favorite spots. Move slowly but smoothly around him. Ask the Pet Parents for more background information and suggestions.

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One of my last guests was nervous and didn't let me touch him at first. It was a last minute arrangement and he was dropped off right after I got home from a night shift, so I had to go to bed almost immediately. The owner and I had taken the dogs out for a walk and he was fine with her there, but once she left he didn't want anything to do with me. I had to go to bed, and I didn't want to leave him out with my dogs yet since he had just arrived and was not comfortable, but he avoided me if I tried to approach him. He didn't want the treats I put near him. Thankfully he came with a kennel and I could lure him into the kennel with a dental chew without having to handle him. I put in my bedroom, so that I could sleep and not worry about him being with the other dogs. After I got up, I released him from the kennel and he let me leash him to go outside, then I went back to ignoring him completely. It took him almost no time at all to come around after realizing I wasn't going to pursue him, and he was cuddled up next to me on the couch within an hour or so. After that he was one of the best dogs I've ever watched, but it took showing him that I wasn't going to do anything he wasn't comfortable with.

Spend as much time around this dog as you can, but avoid doing anything that he doesn't want you to do. Some things are unavoidable, like taking his leash on and off to go outside, but beyond what is necessary, let him know that you won't put him in uncomfortable situations. If he doesn't want to be touched, don't touch him. Touch is not universally comforting, and it's a violation of a dog's boundaries and trust if you force it upon them just like it is for people. Wait for him to ask you to pet him (depending on the dog, he may never ask for it--that's ok). For the most part, ignore him completely while you hang out near him. Move slowly, speak softly, and earn his trust by respecting his boundaries. Feel free to talk to him and tell him it's alright, but avoid eye contact, as a lot of dogs find it confrontational. After he's relaxed with you just being there, you can try gently tossing treats near him or rolling a ball for him. If he seems interested, great. If not, go back to ignoring him. He may not come around during this stay, but by showing that you are considerate of his special needs you won't aggravate his fear and you may be in a better position if you watch these dogs again... (more)

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https://paws4udogs.wordpress.com/2014/04/28/petting-dogs-did-you-ask-permission/ - Good information on asking dogs for their consent before interacting with them.

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I would read some articles on credible websites on dog training and anxiety. I think the first thing to try if you can get him moving without dragging him is exercise. Don't bother with food since he's clearly too anxious to eat, and this can undermine your efforts if you keep trying. Don't use much sound or excitement, as this can make it worse. Above all, just be calm. If he specifically doesn't like the leash, I would practice everything leading up the the leash (calling him, etc) without putting the leash on, teaching him that just because certain things are happening doesn't mean the leash will go on. I would just get him used to being around the leash without putting it on, and when you do put it on, take it off immediately just to show him it doesn't have to stay on long and is nothing to be afraid of.