How do you effect change in a Rat Terrier?
We took in a rescue Rat Terrier (male, neutered, 2-3yr) 6 weeks ago. History unknown. I work from home most of the time but travel 1 week per month. My husband works 14 hour days 7 days a week. We have a 5 yr old female rescue lab that has been with us for 4 years who loves to play, easily excited and playfully aggressive when it comes to playing with toys like tug-a-war.
The Rat Terrier is very sweet. However, He has gone after my lab when I play tug-a-war with her (probably thinking he needs to protect me). When I come home he gets very excited and my lab feeds off of this energy getting equally excited which turns to her wanting to play with him and he yelps. For reasons I'm not sure of (possible treat issue) the got into a fight that I had to physically breakup last night. If I were to guess I would say my lab attacked him because he took her treat.
In the mornings I allow the dogs in bed while I watch the news and when my husband comes to give me a kiss on his way out, he tends to lurch and nip at my him. He went to the vet for the 3rd time this morning and after 2 shots he bit one of the techs( i wasn't in the room). It does tend to take 2-3 people at the vet.
He doesn't like to listen. Ive tried treat training but he appears to be his own dog.
He has made progress most every day but this week has been bad. He still trembles but it has lessened over time.
My heart is heavy. My only experience is with labs. Is this typical? easily corrected? What can I do? Maybe our home isn't the right environment. Any insight is gladly welcomed