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Behavior changes after sitting

WE recently used http://Rover.com for the first time for our Baxter with a wonderful sitter in her home. We met with her twice and felt Baxter would be comfortable in that surrounding while we were away on vacation for 6 1/2 days. Baxter is a rescue and for the 2 yrs we have had him we have always included him in all our get aways, but this vacation was going to involve flying cross country and felt it best to leave Baxter with a sitter (rather that a Kennel) Our sitter sent us updates once or twice a day with pictures and we were very happy to know he was doing well.

Now my question/concern: when we returned he was happy to see us and he seemed just like he always was, very upbeat and happy. But as soon as we arrived back at our home his whole de-miner changed...he came right into the house and directly under our bed (which is where he likes to sleep). The problem was no amount of coaxing or bribing would bring him out and when he finally did come out his attention was only for my husband and when I would try to approach him for some lovin he would run straight back under the bed. He absolutely wants nothing to do with me, and when I do manage to wrangle him up in my lap to love on him he just trembles and can't wait to get down and back under the bed. Is this type of behaviour normal? What can I do to assure it won't happen again if and when we go away without him again. I miss my goofy little man and all our snuggle time.

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Hi Rhonda,I am having a similar issue with my puppy,but I am so sad that it is difficult for me to handle it...did you pup recover from the "new/weird" behavior? Please help...Thank you!

After leaving my 2 year old Husky for the first time for a weekend getaway, I noticed these same changes. She is actually going under my bed, which she never does, and it really concerned me. I was starting to fear maybe she wasn’t treated as well as I thought she had been. I’m so glad I found this!

How did this end up? Just left my 4 month oks puppy for 6 days and experiencing a similar reaction. Hoping to find some guidance/reassurance

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Hi Rhonda -

I watched my friends' husky puppy, James, a while back while they were gone for 3 days. He was 11 months old at the time, and they had never left him before. James is in LOVE with my older dog, Carys, and he knew me pretty well since we'd been getting together for a couple months prior for dog play time, and I'd even taken him out while his owners were at work, so he'd spent time with me without his owners already, too. James was comfortable in my house, although the first night he did not want to stop playing at all--I had to kennel my own dogs, put all the toys away and sleep in the living room to encourage him to go to bed. He spent nearly all of his waking time playing. We also took long walks and had outdoor playtime. He had a BLAST.

After he went home, both of my dogs, as well as James, retired to their respective kennels (all three are dogs that love their little dog caves) and barely came out except to eat and potty for about three days. All three were exhausted. Normally when I get up in the morning, mine come to greet me at the bedroom door, stretching and wagging. After James went home, they didn't do that for the first three mornings. They just looked at me from their kennel, came out calmly when I grabbed the leashes to take them outside, then went right back to bed. James did pretty much the same thing. He is normally about as excitable as you would imagine a teenage husky is, but he went home and crashed, for the most part ignoring his parents and sleeping for days. He had a great time, but he had a very exhausting great time. Like people after a crazy party weekend, all the dogs needed some recovery time.

If I were to guess, this is what's going on with Baxter, too. The combination of a totally different environment and the lack of nearly everything that had been normal over the past couple years, paired with having a genuinely good, exciting time, probably left him in need of a good long recharge. Even if he had a great time, that kind of change is stressful to the system. It's pretty common with our clients, though not necessarily to such an extent. Dogs who never sleep in the car will crash on their way home, and pretty much everyone will go right to sleep as soon as they're back home.

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Thanks Laura. I was so concerned with his well being while we were on vacation. Just need to give him time to settle back into our old routine. Just happy to hear that this is a normal reaction, and nothing I could have done differently that would have prevented this stand offish attitude I'm getting from him.

I’ve had the same experience my Shih Tzu is totally beat when I go on vacations and leave him. He’s very tired and weak. He sleeps most of the days. I think he just needs to recharge after playing and running daily with dogs and having fun. They have to recover as we do from traveling

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Since Baxter was a rescue and you were probably his main caregiver he might be mad at you. Give him some time and don't force him. I think he will come around. This was his first experience being away from you. Even if he was happy he probably still missed you.

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Thanks Nancy. I was so concerned with his well being while we were on vacation. Just need to give him time to settle back into our old routine. Just happy to hear that this is a normal reaction, and nothing I could have done differently that would have prevented this stand offish attitude I'm getting from him.

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During my stays the pups get non stop play, long hike and dog park time. My customers always tell me it takes about three days for their pups to get rested and back to normal.

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Hi Ronda, this is normal. Yariss ,my poodle does get mad at me for leaving her, even if it's with people she knows well. She would be very exited to see me but once at home, she would ignore me for a while. She has been sleeping with me since she was a puppy and when this happens she has even opted to sleep in somebody's else's bed!! for her, this kind of behavior last about 1-3 days. Give him time and lots of love! He will be back to normal!