*We mean well when we snuggle, kiss and cuddle our pups before leaving for work in the morning, but we are actually pouring gas on a fire. Dogs don't understand our baby talk about how amazing they are. They rely on our body language and emotional vibe to tell how they feel about a situation. When leaving your dog with separation anxiety it is best to walk calmly and quietly to the door without hesitating speaking or looking at your dog. Sometimes it helps to distract them as you walk out of the door with a Kong filled with peanut butter, or an interactive toy with their favorite treats inside. Keep a blanket around that you use often so they can have something that smells like you (Or your PJ's if you don't mind). Leave the TV on or the Radio for some noise so they don't feel alone.

*Exercise is a great way of distraction for anxiety. Dogs release Endorphins while they exercise, just like us. Try to schedule enough time in your morning routine for a walk. So you AND your dog can start the day off right.

*Sometimes anxious dogs just want to be alone. When an unavoidable thunderstorm happens, many dogs will scamper to find a safe place to hide. They take refuge under beds, in closets, or in basement corners. Being the loving parents that we are. Our instinct is to seek them out and comfort them. Forcing them to leave their comfy hiding place may not be the best idea. They may feel more exposed and more vulnerable. If you feel you must be near your pet, just quietly sit by until your dog is ready to come to you.

*There is no shame in asking a Vet for advice. Sometimes relief can come in the form of training, herbs, pheromones or medication. I do think it would be better to keep the Dog in its own home, if someone is willing to stay at your house. If not, then it wouldn't hurt to help your dog cope with his/her anxiety, if you can leave him/her with someone who will take the time do develop trust with your dog. Hope this helped!!!