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Melanie P.

SF, CA

5.0 out of 5 stars
21 reviews
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Shy/Anxious Dogs | Positive Methods

Pet care experience

Hi, I’m Mel. I love shy/anxious dogs! I've specialized in positive methods care for shy/anxious, special needs, and elderly dogs since 2018. My passion and unique skills in caring for shy/anxious dogs began back in 2012, when I worked for a year at an animal rescue and learned how to build trust with scared pups in the shelter environment. Positive methods means that I go at your pet’s pace! I use careful observation of your pet’s body language, positive reinforcement like praise and treats, and gentleness, curiosity, and empathy about your pet’s experience in order to set your dog at ease and meet their needs. I’m skilled in caring for: Dogs with leash reactivity, who need to be carefully managed on walks Dogs with resource guarding behaviors, who need to be carefully managed around other pets or people Dogs with anxious or fearful behaviors Dogs with a history of trauma Pets with special medical needs I am also experienced in giving pills, providing oral medications using a syringe, providing insulin injections, and administering eye drops. I typically work closely with Aaron, my spouse of thirteen years, in caring for pets. Aaron brings curiosity and gentleness to his animal care and particularly enjoys helping dogs meet their exercise needs whether it’s going for a jog or just tossing the ball around. We are also happy to care for cats and other pets when booked with a dog sitting stay. --- Here are some highlights from our pet care over the years: FRED: Anxious & slow to warm up Meet Fred! Fred is selective about her new friends. When we first met Fred, she expressed lots of discomfort through shy and anxious body language (ears back, tail tucked, licking lips, hesitant to approach). Her dads were worried we’d be scared of her barking, but we understood Fred was just expressing big feelings. We went at Fred’s pace, offering lots of treats and relaxed presence, and letting Fred take the lead in our relationship. Now we can’t get Fred off the couch with us. If your dog is like Fred, they’re in good company. Fred is just one of our many clients who need slow, thoughtful introductions to new people! LUNA: Leash reactivity Meet Luna! Luna is absolutely head-over-heels with any person she meets, but she’s not a fan of other dogs. When Luna catches sight of another dog on leash, she barks, lunges, and pulls. This is because Luna is both overly excited and frustrated all at once! We support Luna getting the exercise she needs without the frustration through careful and proactive anticipation and redirection of possible triggers, using high value treats, distraction, and visual barriers to help Luna be her best self. If your dog is like Luna, they’re in good company. Luna is just one of our many clients who need a little extra attention when on leash! EVIE: Afraid of loud noises Meet Evie! Evie is a Plott Hound with a heart of gold — and a country girl who isn’t accustomed to city life and city noises. A loud motorcycle, thunder, or dump truck slamming a garbage can down one street away can really ruin Evie’s day — and when Evie is scared, she hides, shakes, and can even pull you all the way home on leash. We support Evie with gentleness and understanding, keeping an attentive eye out for possible triggers we can avoid when on walks and offering Evie a calm, loving presence when she’s scared. If your dog is like Evie, they’re in good company. Evie is just one of our several clients who are afraid of loud noises! KLAUS: Afraid of his leash Meet Klaus! Klaus is a sweet old man with one funny quirk: he loves walks but is afraid of his leash! We worked closely with Klaus’s mom to learn his routine and what worked for him so we could safely leash him for his very favorite thing while his parents were away. If your dog is quirky like Klaus, they’re in good company. Klaus is just one of our several clients with special quirks! RUBY: Resource Guarding Meet Ruby! Ruby is the dog who started it all and inspired us to offer our services specifically for shy/anxious, special needs, and elderly dogs. When we first met Ruby, she wasn’t terribly interested in touch and could be quite picky about who she allowed to pick her up, and when. So it was important for us to gain her trust as we needed to carry her down a flight of stairs in order to take her outside! Ruby also engaged in some resource guarding behaviors with her sister Puffy, particularly in regards to space and people. We worked closely with Ruby and Puffy’s mom to make sure we knew how to support them in coexisting peacefully, and how to safely separate them when needed. Last but not least: Ruby took a daily pill as well as liquid medication that we administered using a syringe to squirt it into her mouth. We made sure to keep Ruby’s mom up-to-date about how she was doing with lots of daily text updates and pictures! LIMA: History of trauma & limited touch tolerance Meet Lima! Lima’s loving mom rescued her from a shelter after Lima experienced confirmed extreme physical abuse. Lima’s history of trauma with people contributed to ongoing post-traumatic stress symptoms and fearful behaviors. Lima expressed lots of discomfort through shy and anxious body language (ears back, tail tucked, licking lips, hesitant to approach) as well as through more active warning signals (barking, growling, hackles raised, whale eye, and lifted lip). Most importantly — the only person who could touch Lima was her mom, and even Lima’s mom could only touch her very lightly and in certain areas. We worked closely with Lima’s mom to make sure that we were going at Lima’s pace using extremely slow introductions with lots of high value treats, gentle use of the leash, and absolutely letting Lima take the lead in letting us know what her boundaries were and what she was comfortable with. If your dog is like Lima, you’re not alone! We’re experienced in providing a high level of gentle patience, calm companionship, and careful attention to behavioral plans and the live data of your dog’s body language with us to make sure that your dog receives the love and attention they deserve even when their family is traveling without them. PANDA: Bite history Meet Panda! Panda came to us with a story: He had broken away from his mom while out on a walk and made a beeline to a stranger, who he then bit in the butt. As you can probably guess, Panda has big feelings about new people, and gets extra amped when he’s on leash. Panda’s mom was working with a positive methods trainer to help her better manage his fearful behaviors, and we stepped in to help with both Daytime and Overnight Care while Panda’s mom went on a trip! When we first met Panda, Panda expressed lots of discomfort through shy and anxious body language (ears back, tail tucked, licking lips, hesitant to approach) as well as through more active warning signals (barking, growling, hackles raised, whale eye, and lifted lip). We worked closely with Panda’s mom to make sure that we were going at Panda’s pace using extremely slow introductions with lots of high value treats — following their trainer’s guidelines — and absolutely letting Panda take the lead in letting us know what his boundaries were and what he was comfortable with. We also supported Panda on walks through careful and proactive anticipation and redirection of possible triggers, using high value treats, distraction, and visual barriers to help Panda be his best self.

Reviews

Shaun M.
Feb 16, 2024

Melanie and Aaron were wonderful caretakers for our two doggies, Fred and London. Fred needs extra care and patience as she is very anxious around new people and Melanie and Aaron were both exactly what she needed. They listened to our directions on how to be around her until she gets to know you and behaved non-anxiously around her which made us and Fred feel so much more at ease. They watched both of our dogs while we were away on a multi-day trip, stayed at our home, and sent us frequent updates and pictures of our babies. We felt relaxed and such relief knowing that we didn't have to worry about our girls because they were in thoughtful, patient, and kind hands. Thank you, Melanie & Aaron, for your care! We will definitely book these two again <3

Shaya F.
Feb 01, 2024

We were worried about finding a dog sitter for Luna. She barks and lunges at other dogs on walks and has anxiety behaviors that come out around people she doesn’t know well. We have a somewhat complicated training protocol for her reactivity we developed with a positive trainer. And to top it all off she was waking us up at weird hours of the night. We had Mel dog sit in our home for a week and Mel was awesome! She tried a variety of things to help Luna feel more relaxed including figuring out what kind of music Luna found to be the most calming, using white noise and making her crate feel more cavelike. She kept up with the training protocol around other dogs and we really appreciated Mel’s strong commitment to positive reinforcement approaches. Mel gave us detailed notes about what she tried to help Luna sleep through the night and by the end of the week Luna was sleeping through the night—a very exciting development! Mel is a highly skilled dog sitter for reactive and anxious dogs and we would recommend her to take care of any dog.

Keri S.
House Sitting • Oct 10, 2022
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Melanie did a great job taking care of our 3 small dogs (and house) while we went on vacation. It was our first time leaving them with someone other than family, and her frequent updates helped a lot to alleviate our anxiety about it. She was patient with our dog who is not quick to warm up, and they were buddies by the time we came back. I would definitely use her again.

Cooper A.
House Sitting • May 02, 2022
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Melanie watched our pup this past weekend, and we can't recommend her strongly enough. Our dog can be very shy around people she doesn't know, but it seemed like these two bonded instantly. Melanie was very responsive, sent lots of updates and pictures, and left the house in pristine shape. We will definitely reach out to her again for future dog-sitting needs!

About Melanie P.

Communication

5 repeat pet parents
100% response rate
Usually responds in a few minutes
70% bookings with photo updates

Skills

10 years of experience
Oral medication administration
Injected medication administration
First aid/CPR
Senior dog experience
Special needs dog experience
Can provide daily exercise

Safety, trust & environment

I am detail-oriented and attentive to the instructions you give me about what your pet and your home requires. Please let me know how I can put your mind at ease while staying in your home! I also guarantee respectful house care: cleaning up, sanitizing areas used, placing used linens near washer (or as otherwise requested), and emptying trash or recycling when possible before leaving. As requested, I happily do minor chores like bringing in the mail and watering plants as a courtesy.

Information Melanie P. would like to know about your pet

Why are you specifically interested in our specialized care for shy/anxious and special needs dogs? Tell us about your pet's personality. What kind of play does your pet enjoy? What helps your pet relax? What are your pet's behavioral and medical needs? What is your pet's typical routine? Have your pets ever stayed with professional in-home pet care (a petsitter) before? How did that go? Is there anything that would be helpful for us to know about your past experiences?

A typical day

Your pet will have the reassuring experience of our presence in your home during the night and early morning for their regular feeding, evening exercise and play, and bedtime schedule. We may leave to get dinner for ourselves, but we’ll return shortly to spend the majority of the evening with your pet — and if/when we leave for the day, we’ll make sure that before we do, your dog is safe, fed, walked, and supplied with everything they need while we’re away. I typically work closely with Aaron, my spouse of thirteen years, in caring for pets. Aaron brings curiosity and gentleness to his animal care and particularly enjoys helping dogs meet their exercise needs whether it’s going for a jog or just tossing the ball around.

Services

House Sitting
in your home
AWAY

Melanie can watch in your home

Cats
0 to 15 lbs
16 to 40 lbs
41 to 100 lbs
over 101 lbs
Dogs over 1 year old

Availability

Booking a stay with me guarantees that your pet will receive in-home overnight care from one or both of us! On the occasional nights that I am required to work overnight at the hospital for my full-time job, my spouse Aaron will ensure overnight coverage for your pets.

About Melanie P.

Communication

5 repeat pet parents
100% response rate
Usually responds in a few minutes
70% bookings with photo updates

Skills

10 years of experience
Oral medication administration
Injected medication administration
First aid/CPR
Senior dog experience
Special needs dog experience
Can provide daily exercise

Safety, trust & environment

I am detail-oriented and attentive to the instructions you give me about what your pet and your home requires. Please let me know how I can put your mind at ease while staying in your home! I also guarantee respectful house care: cleaning up, sanitizing areas used, placing used linens near washer (or as otherwise requested), and emptying trash or recycling when possible before leaving. As requested, I happily do minor chores like bringing in the mail and watering plants as a courtesy.

Information Melanie P. would like to know about your pet

Why are you specifically interested in our specialized care for shy/anxious and special needs dogs? Tell us about your pet's personality. What kind of play does your pet enjoy? What helps your pet relax? What are your pet's behavioral and medical needs? What is your pet's typical routine? Have your pets ever stayed with professional in-home pet care (a petsitter) before? How did that go? Is there anything that would be helpful for us to know about your past experiences?

A typical day

Your pet will have the reassuring experience of our presence in your home during the night and early morning for their regular feeding, evening exercise and play, and bedtime schedule. We may leave to get dinner for ourselves, but we’ll return shortly to spend the majority of the evening with your pet — and if/when we leave for the day, we’ll make sure that before we do, your dog is safe, fed, walked, and supplied with everything they need while we’re away. I typically work closely with Aaron, my spouse of thirteen years, in caring for pets. Aaron brings curiosity and gentleness to his animal care and particularly enjoys helping dogs meet their exercise needs whether it’s going for a jog or just tossing the ball around.

Location

SF, CA

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Melanie P.

SF, CA

5.0 out of 5 stars
21 reviews