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Lily F.

Haw River, NC

5.0 out of 5 stars
72 reviews
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Trusted petsitter in UK, France, US

Pet care experience

I adore animals and, as my grandmother and mother did, frequently rescue and foster animals in need. Often, they just turn up on my doorstep and are waiting there in the morning! After growing up in Nashville with labs, mutts, cats, gerbils, canaries, goldfish, and spending weekends on the family farm with the mules, cows, chickens, and a revolving cast of other animals, I started housesitting and petsitting in the 80’s in grad school before starting my own human and rescued four-footer family. In 2015 and 2016 after the last of my four-footers passed away, I fostered and rehabbed a dog at a time for the SPCA when the schedule allowed. My last dog foster in Cincinnati, 70 pounds of muscle-bound American Staffordshire, went to his new home after five months of intensive rehab and reward-based training. It was because of him that I discovered Rover, since he had spent two years in a cage at the pound and I was not going to put him in a cage again, ever, so boarding was out when I traveled. Some dogs like their crates as their dens. Oliver, though, chewed his heavy-duty metal crate into slivers the first time in his very gradual training that I left him for a whole 15 minutes, and he took a long time to place. So, when I had to travel, he had a Rover sitter. My last feline foster in Cincinnati in 2020-21, Pepito, has a blissfully happy life now with a half-dozen loyal servants to do his bidding. In Cincinnati, I walked dogs midday and did some pet sitting in my apartment building before joining Rover. Those darlings included a young, very strong jumping bean/pit bull cross, a gentle giant with occasional dog reactivity, an ancient and very ladylike Sheltie, a Senegal parrot, and a motley crew of cats. When there's spare time, I'm often reading or watching footage about dogs and dog-human interactions, since I hope to start training service dogs over the next few years. I trained my wonderful service dog to full certification after a spinal injury in the Middle East nearly 25 years ago, and since getting back on my feet, have wanted to help others form solid partnerships of the kind we had. I’ve had a lovely time meeting new Rover clients in the Research Triangle area since summer 2021. Once omicron hit and winter weather meant clients couldn’t open windows to air out their homes, I was thrilled to be accepted to foster dogs for Second Chance in Raleigh, the best fostering organization I’ve ever worked with. My first foster, a Corgi mix and mighty fetcher named Betty White, now has a truly lovely home, and my second foster, Gustavo the gentlemanly chihuahua with a habit of snapping when displeased, also found a great home after a couple of tries. I will only take on short vacation and transport fosters now that I am able to regularly pet sit again. I’m a five-star pet sitter and house sitter on another site as a traveling house sitter in France and the UK in 2014, 2015, and 2017, where I cared for Norfolk terriers, a pair of young Samoyeds, a Newfie mix and his giant ginger tomcat, a strapping golden retriever fond of long slogs through the winter marshes (and his rescued battery hens and cat), an eventing horse and his Shetland pony buddy, and a few households ruled by cats. I love them all to this day, including a lurcher dog who is best buddies with three black pigs who came running to meet him at their fence in the churchyard when he came out of the woods. I've been mostly in the U.S. since then, with a slowdown of everything late 2017 through 2018 for central nervous system lymphoma treatment and stem cell transplant recovery, then happily pet sitting in Cincinnati again until COVID shut that down because of my ridiculously high risk factors. I'm now vaccinated and boosted, living in a tiny house in the Triangle, and eager to meet four-footers and other animals. Because my kind of lymphoma has such high risk of mortality from COVID-19, I’ll have to stay masked during our getting acquainted visit, and I'll want to let your HVAC system run for an hour or two after your departure to filter the air before I arrive. I work at home for some or most of the day during the week, so your animals would have lots of company. I absolutely respect my clients' privacy, and am meticulous in caring for their possessions, having grown up tiptoeing around antiques and fragile things. Your house will be as you left it when you return. Most people can't tell I've been there, other than by how happy and relaxed their animals are when they come back. After spending the last 39 years traveling to and living in the Middle East and elsewhere, it's safe to say that I am calm in a crisis. Having raised and rescued and cared for animals in my 25 years in Cincinnati, and having saved a kitten after she was thrown from a truck onto I-75 on Easter Sunday not long ago, I'm also familiar with getting animals to emergency care and always learn those locations wherever I travel. I will map the route to your vet from your home at least once before starting the sit. You can trust me to keep your dogs and other animals safe, and to give them lots of affection. Dogs in my care get the walks they are used to and plenty of play time and cuddles. In my experience, dogs and cats need mental and physical workouts during the day (insofar as they are able) to be happy, and I like learning what works best for each individual animal. If you are comfortable with your dog traveling in my little hatchback, I am happy to make excursions for walks, though your dog will always be on leash when away from home. While I don't yet know how to inject medications, I have lots of experience with administering oral and eye and skin medications and working with anxious dogs and some with behavior problems through my rescue and foster work, to help them feel comfortable and heal from bad things that happened in their lives. My response to Rover’s question, "Why are you house sitting and pet sitting?" is this: I'm traveling farther and for longer spells for work these days, so it's not a good time to have my own pets. I really, really miss having animals in my life 24/7, though. As well, it helps to speed up my writing and thinking to move to a new setting every now and again. Somehow, other than one fierce tabby whose mission in life is to repel any and all invaders from her apartment when her dad's away, animals know in a millisecond that they can trust me, and they're right. I'd love to meet your pets and become their new beloved auntie! Please do let me know if you have any questions. COVID-19 contingencies: I used to leave a 3-day buffer between bookings to allow for travel delays, and then if clients were traveling overseas and at risk of being refused return flights if they test positive on required COVID tests, I left a 10-day buffer after their booking was supposed to end so I could stay with the animals those 10 days. I had shortened this but for fall/winter 2023/2024, am leaving a 3-day buffer for now. NOTE RE. 25 MARCH 2024 CANCELLATION ON SHORT NOTICE: I was diagnosed with RSV and learned 7 days in that it is highly contagious for a while even after symptoms are gone, and my doctor is seeing many cases where it lasts two weeks or more. As soon as I learned that I'm still a walking germ vector, I let my clients know and they chose to cancel the booking. I did the cancellation from my end since they are fairly new to Rover. I feel awful about not understanding early on that it isn't just a cold that would be gone in a few days. I'd feel worse if I made these lovely people sick though, because this germ is a beast! Y'all be careful out there!

Reviews

House Sitting • Mar 25, 2024

Lily F. cancelled a booking 2 days before it was scheduled to begin.

Donna G.
House Sitting • Mar 20, 2024
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We so appreciate the wonderful care we received. Lily does such a great job with our dogs. And it’s a pleasure to come home to the house in such good order.

Christine C.
House Sitting • Mar 12, 2024
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This was our second time having Lily F. stay with our cats and she did not disappoint. She's attentive and genuinely enjoys loving our sweet babies. She also left the house clean and was helpful with a wifi snafu that happened during our trip. We run a business from our home; there is a bit of coming and going even when we are not there. Lily was very flexible and kept us informed. We will definitely be using her services again!

Melissa H.
House Sitting • Mar 04, 2024
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Lily is awesome! Our boys adore her. We get updates and photos. She takes such good care of them, I don't worry when we have to leave them.

About Lily F.

Communication

32 repeat pet parents
100% response rate
Usually responds in a few minutes
80% bookings with photo updates
Sends updates with Rover Cards

Skills

45 years of experience
Oral medication administration
Senior dog experience
Special needs dog experience
Can provide daily exercise

Safety, trust & environment

I am almost always with pets in my care, unless it's equines in pasture or you tell me to leave your dog/s alone out in a well-fenced yard for long spells with frequent checks to make sure they are okay. Rover now asks you to tip their sitters after the sit is over. I do not support this policy, because for some clients, hiring the best sitter they can afford is really tough on their budgets. If you can afford to tip and you want to do that, then I'm not offended of course, but I don't want you to feel pressured to pay more than you can afford.

Information Lily F. would like to know about your pet

I'd love to know your pets' personality and expectations for a normal day, and what we can do to ease the anxiety of your departure and my being around on my first stay. Happy to stop by a second time or more after our meet and greet if it's the first time caring for your animals, so they can get used to me. Also, please let me know if there are any foods you don't want in your kitchen. My son has celiac and I have friends with all sorts of dietary restrictions from faith or medical necessity or just plain preference, so I'm fine with restricting my diet to keep your kitchen safe and pleasant for you, too.

A typical day

If for a short stay with your dog/s, we'll walk in the neighborhood or on your land to keep a familiar routine. If for a longer stay, and with your permission, I'm happy to take dogs in my Crosstrek for an expedition to their favorite park for an on-leash outing. For your indoor animals, we'll hang out for most of the day if you'd like; if that's too much company for them to get used to, I'll head out to help for a few hours on a couple of local farms, or just run errands.

Services

House Sitting
in your home
$50per night
Drop-In Visits
visits in your home
$30per visit

Lily can watch in your home

Cats
0 to 15 lbs
16 to 40 lbs

Availability

I work from home, so would be in your home with your animal/s most of the time except for gym time and medical appointments, collating research and writing it up, with breaks for play, snacks, and walks as needed. I'll let you know if something changes about that, but I'm generally not gone for more than 2-4 hours at at a time, depending on your home's distance from my gym.

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About Lily F.

Communication

32 repeat pet parents
100% response rate
Usually responds in a few minutes
80% bookings with photo updates
Sends updates with Rover Cards

Skills

45 years of experience
Oral medication administration
Senior dog experience
Special needs dog experience
Can provide daily exercise

Safety, trust & environment

I am almost always with pets in my care, unless it's equines in pasture or you tell me to leave your dog/s alone out in a well-fenced yard for long spells with frequent checks to make sure they are okay. Rover now asks you to tip their sitters after the sit is over. I do not support this policy, because for some clients, hiring the best sitter they can afford is really tough on their budgets. If you can afford to tip and you want to do that, then I'm not offended of course, but I don't want you to feel pressured to pay more than you can afford.

Information Lily F. would like to know about your pet

I'd love to know your pets' personality and expectations for a normal day, and what we can do to ease the anxiety of your departure and my being around on my first stay. Happy to stop by a second time or more after our meet and greet if it's the first time caring for your animals, so they can get used to me. Also, please let me know if there are any foods you don't want in your kitchen. My son has celiac and I have friends with all sorts of dietary restrictions from faith or medical necessity or just plain preference, so I'm fine with restricting my diet to keep your kitchen safe and pleasant for you, too.

A typical day

If for a short stay with your dog/s, we'll walk in the neighborhood or on your land to keep a familiar routine. If for a longer stay, and with your permission, I'm happy to take dogs in my Crosstrek for an expedition to their favorite park for an on-leash outing. For your indoor animals, we'll hang out for most of the day if you'd like; if that's too much company for them to get used to, I'll head out to help for a few hours on a couple of local farms, or just run errands.

Location

Haw River, NC

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Lily F.

Haw River, NC

5.0 out of 5 stars
72 reviews