When introducing myself to a new pet I will allow the animal to approach me. I take things slow. I have learned yelling is not usually the best way to resolve an issue with dogs. Yelling is the dogs encouragement. Instead I approach with a calm demeanor. Through training I have learned that it's best to allow new dogs the chance to establish who is in charge while monitoring the pups' actions and interceding when the situation seems to be escalading. This said, I believe the best approach to introducing dogs is to make sure both dogs are leashed. In my own home, play time is supervised for a few minutes to make sure that both dogs are eager to play. If it seems like one is not up to playing then I will separate the dogs. I am firm but not mean. Just as you would with a child when I give a command I will stand firm in my command till it is obeyed. I immediately reward my dogs when the command has been followed. I definitely treat my dogs as my children. They get lots and lots of kisses, and are most definitely spoiled. I always try to do fun things with them like taking them for rides or going on hikes. They get birthday parties and specialty birthday cookies. They also get gifts for holidays like Christmas and Valentine's Day. They go to the vet every year for their shots and examine. They get the medicine they need to keep them from heart worms and fleas. They also take supplements to help with their digestion and anxiety (both of my pups are rescues and have had some difficult experiences).