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Rejecting a request after a meet & greet?

Hey there fellow sitters, and happy new year! I had a question regarding your experiences in turning down a client and their dog after a meet and greet. How often has that happened for you? Do you ever feel a little guilty over it? What are the reasons you've turned a pup down after meeting them?

I've only been doing this since September but have seen most of my weekends booked since I've started. Last Saturday I had a meet and greet with someone who had reached out to me and had informed me right away that her pup was a bit of a talker and that he can get protective of his space. I told her that shouldn't be a problem but I'd like to try and acquaint myself with the dog, perhaps build a new budding friendship, and make sure this would be something that worked out. While I wanted to be hopeful during the meeting, I couldn't shake the feeling that once I was left alone with this dog, I'd be nervous being around him, and thus that nervousness would feed onto him and change his behavior. Based on his movements, his huffs, the way his tail stood..All of it just made me feel uneasy. So a day after the M&G I reached out to the owner and apologized for the time spent and for any misunderstandings, but that I didn't think I was capable enough to take care of her dog. I had also given her the support line in hopes that they would help find a different sitter.

I was just curious if other sitters have had these moments before as well, if they've followed their gut feeling, or anything else.

I truly believe I made the right decision but a small part of me still feels a little guilty and a little disappointed in myself for doubting my abilities.

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I agree with what the others said. Though, I have felt guilty because I know they might have issues finding someone else. That just indicates you care. Just don't feel too guilty - they chose the dog and are choosing to go out of town. Good luck!

Thanks Lisa that's a good point too

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Deb gave you great advise and I also believe you need to trust your gut and only accept clients and dogs you are comfortable with. Best of luck in the future

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Thanks Walt!

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You made the right decision. If you called Rover support, they'd also tell you so. (I know from having doubts or concerns when I was new to this and calling them for their opinion) Yes, I've turned down dogs that were not a match after a meet & greet - that's what a meet & greet is for - to ensure Both the sitter & client and dogs involved are well matched for each other, Never allow yourself to feel guilty over making that decision. There are Lots of sitters on Rover, so clients can find their perfect person, which Rover support may be able to help with suggestions by using additional filters that are only available to them. It would have been far worse to accept the booking and have a terrible experience that would you'd endure or want to end the booking early or get the dog re-assigned to someone else.

On a side note: Can you imagine being nervous & on edge in your own home for 24 hours for just $5 more than a 30 minute walk? I've found that the dogs whose parents want to pay at the lowest end of the price range are usually the most problematic canines - wide ranging behavioral issues, poor training, poor diet, etc.

On a personal note, I've turned down Many people, starting with assessing whether we should even have a meet&greet. Reasons include: If their dogs aren't spayed/neutered, up to date on core vaccinations, and flea preventative, will not walk on leash to relieve themselves outside, are too big or a breed that based on my experience likely will not mesh with mine. At the meet & greet, turn down reasons include: showing aggression towards my dog or me, or marking inside my home after at least a 15 minute walk outside together.

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Thank you Deb! I guess being the first time I've done it, I'm feeling off about it. But it's nice to know that turning down clients after an initial meet IS something that happens. And those are all really good details to note in order to determine a good fit.

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Exactly what Deb said. I personally do not feel guilty when I feel that I am not a good match for the client's need. Nothing wrong with it at all. I will tell them I am sorry but I am not a good match for their needs, and I have never had a client who would be angry or me feeling guilty. You can't like them all, and you can't expect be liked by everyone. Not everyone is looking for what you have to offer.

I just had a person asking me to board a dog who is intact and marks inside the house. I asked if the dog sleeps in the crate at night because I can NOT have the dog walk around the house at night and pee on furniture. The owner said the dog does not sleep in the crate and they want someone who will let him walk around. I told them I was sorry I am not a good match for them, and they had no issues with it. I had no issues with it. I thanked them, they thanked me. There is absolutely no reason to feel guilty when you decide you don't want to do a business with a person who is not a good match.

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Oh my gosh that sounds horrifying haha and totally understandable, can't get along with everyone. thanks Lenna! Woot woot fellow coloradoean!...coloradist? eh . regardless :p

This is business and it needs to be treated as such. Hi from Aurora! :D

Yah, that's true. Sometimes it's just business. Yay sunshine! At last!