Rejecting a request after a meet & greet?
Hey there fellow sitters, and happy new year! I had a question regarding your experiences in turning down a client and their dog after a meet and greet. How often has that happened for you? Do you ever feel a little guilty over it? What are the reasons you've turned a pup down after meeting them?
I've only been doing this since September but have seen most of my weekends booked since I've started. Last Saturday I had a meet and greet with someone who had reached out to me and had informed me right away that her pup was a bit of a talker and that he can get protective of his space. I told her that shouldn't be a problem but I'd like to try and acquaint myself with the dog, perhaps build a new budding friendship, and make sure this would be something that worked out. While I wanted to be hopeful during the meeting, I couldn't shake the feeling that once I was left alone with this dog, I'd be nervous being around him, and thus that nervousness would feed onto him and change his behavior. Based on his movements, his huffs, the way his tail stood..All of it just made me feel uneasy. So a day after the M&G I reached out to the owner and apologized for the time spent and for any misunderstandings, but that I didn't think I was capable enough to take care of her dog. I had also given her the support line in hopes that they would help find a different sitter.
I was just curious if other sitters have had these moments before as well, if they've followed their gut feeling, or anything else.
I truly believe I made the right decision but a small part of me still feels a little guilty and a little disappointed in myself for doubting my abilities.
I agree with what the others said. Though, I have felt guilty because I know they might have issues finding someone else. That just indicates you care. Just don't feel too guilty - they chose the dog and are choosing to go out of town. Good luck!
Thanks Lisa that's a good point too