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How do you handle a mourning dog?

I have a client who suffered a loss of her fiance a week ago and the dog is definitely showing signs of depression and cuddles a lot too which is great except after every 15 mins of cuddling he looks at me and starts sobbing. That breaks my heart every time and I am basically doing the walks for free now. What else do you recommend to help the dog in this situation? He hasn't socialized with other dogs like ever so he is very aggressive towards other dogs and being a boxer that amplifies the situation so I am not too big on dog parks and it is too cold to spend a lot of time outside too. Any other suggestions?

Update: I worked 2 full weeks with the pupper and the dog is so much happier now that he's getting enough exercises and training we can already see a lot difference. Although he has his moments when he would miss his dad but for the most part he's a happy camper. Thank You all for your suggestions diverting his attention for short periods of time works like a charm.

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As a heads up, Rover's insurance is null if you take a client to a dog park even if they aren't aggressive!

Oh good to know that. I will keep it in mind. Thank You.

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I have a repeat that has been coming for years now. When she first started coming she had just lost her "Papa Parent" who trained her from puppy to adult. She Loves going for walks and attached herself to my hubby. But, she still grieved by staying in my bedroom and not socializing during down times. Dogs do grieve just like people. Some grieve more than others. It's hard but try to do things that divert her moping/grieving for short periods of time. Just give the pup time.

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Even though he's not into dogs, you can still take him around people right? Perhaps dog friendly places like home depot/lowe/at home/ half price books/micheals/ hobby lobby/ tractor supply company etc. Places where he can still socialize and get out of the house is important. Any kind of training will help his mind focus on something other than whats lost.

Also as a sitter, I understand the situation is harsh, however you should still be paid for your time and energy you spend. I don't know why you would offer the services for free.

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Those are some excellent points I will definitely try to take him to some dog friendly places.

Now, when I say basically free I am not saying literally free. What I mean is deducting transport and taxes I am not making any money on it. My reasoning is I do not want to burden the family with large fees just to get the dog taken care of. So after 1-2 weeks I would charge them regular.